Friending policy? Idk.

[hardparade]

*is exhausted*

OKAY. I just changed my layout, and then went through and unlocked all of my fic and all of my fandom-related entries that didn't include too much RL stuff. I left most of my much older entries locked...just because I got lazy.

I feel a lot more organised.

And now, I hate to do this, but:

FRIENDS CUT.

BUT NOT THE USUAL KIND.

Just, a lot of people have friended me since I went on lockdown so they could read my fic, and now that my fic's public again I want to give them the chance to de-friend me if they like. XD Also, if you added me a while ago and feel we've drifted apart fandom-wise, this is your chance to de-friend me without awkwardness. You don't have to say anything. I'll de-friend you too unless I really like reading your posts or something, idk.

AT THE SAME TIME, this is also a chance for any lurkers to add me. I've never really had an official sticky post about my friending policy, mainly because I don't really have a friending policy. But I've recently become aware that I do actually have lurkers. WHICH IS FINE, srsly, but if you want to friend me, do. If you just want to get my public updates on your flist that's fine, and if you want me to add you back, let me know.

Aaand I might go through my flist and delete some people I really haven't heard from in ages or whatever, but I don't know, honestly this isn't the sort of thing I make a big deal of and I've managed up until now to avoid making any kind of friends cuts at all. But if I de-friend you and it's a horrible mistake, just say! THIS WHOLE THING MAKES ME NERVOUS, I DON'T WANT TO MAKE YOU NERVOUS TOO. ♥

Comments

[marseverlasting.livejournal.com]

Hi I just added you cause I like your posts, but I'd love to talk to you too? This is weird and I feel like I'm in kindergarten asking someone to be my friend but if you'd like to chat or communicate or something I would like that and think that would be cool? Feel free to sit on my jacket and do some colouring books with me!

[likecharity.livejournal.com]

THIS IS TOTALLY FINE. I will feel weird too, to keep you company, by saying that when you added me I checked out your journal and stuff and I actually think you seem kind of awesome and sweet, so, y'know, *sits on your jacket* I already friended you back, I think, so let's just like...comment on each other's entries and stuff. I BELIEVE THAT'S THE NEXT STEP HERE.

[marseverlasting.livejournal.com]

I agree with this next step. Let's make it hap'n cap'n.